Things I Learned by 28

With my 28th bday being right around the corner, I thought I’d share 28 things I learned by 28. Please feel free to share any of the things you’ve learned throughout your life!

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  1. Know how to be alone, because you will be alone at times and it is OK
  2. Your mom is your best friend
  3. & so are your sister and/or brother ❤
  4. You’ll always be your daddy’s little girl, no matter how old you are
  5. Don’t rush into dating or marriage, the right one will come
  6. Get an education, it comes in handy (beauty school, technical school, college, etc.)
  7. Work where you are happy, not where they pay the most
  8. Credit cards are only for emergencies (and some light shopping)
  9. SAVE, SAVE, SAVE!!!
  10. Don’t get yourself into debt trying to impress people that don’t matter
  11. Alcohol should be consumed with limits, not until you pass out
  12. You don’t need alcohol to have fun at parties
  13. Travel as much as you can
  14. Be kind to everyone, why waste your energy being mean
  15. Not everyone is your friend
  16. It’s OK to get out of a toxic friendship/relationship,  regardless of the years in it
  17. You’re allowed to cut family off
  18. Always do your bed before you leave & wash the dishes before bed bc cleanliness
  19. Don’t go to bed with your makeup on…WASH YOUR FACE
  20. You don’t need makeup to look beautiful
  21. Be comfortable in your own skin
  22. Eat your veggies and drink your water (your body will thank you)
  23. Think twice about that tattoo you want…they’re forever (unless you do laser)
  24. Don’t go to bed mad
  25. Be HONEST…it takes more time/energy to lie
  26. It is OK to ask for help, you’re only human
  27. Don’t compare yourself to others, everyone is unique
  28. Don’t let others pressure you: drugs, alcohol, marriage, children, etc.

 

 

***BONUS: Always take time to be HAPPY!

& there you have it folks, all the wisdom you need from an almost 28 year old! (I’m sure I could’ve thought of more but…OLD person’s brain here lol)

Hiking Oahu

Hike Collage

As you probably know, I just recently went to Oahu, Hawaii for a week long vacation. It was my first time going to Hawaii, so I was beyond excited. Let me just say, Hawaii was beautiful; it met my expectations and more! I had an itinerary full of hikes set for our trip, but quickly ditched it and did things day by day as we pleased. Below I will be sharing the two hikes we did and my tips for each.

Diamond Head Trail

The first thing we did in Oahu (other than grabbing Wendy’s at midnight lol) was to complete the Diamond Head trail. This hike was not difficult, but it got steeper and steeper as you went. The path was very uneven and consisted of rocks, stairs (lots and lots of them), and a tunnel. There were many stops along the way that had lookout points which made for great pictures. Reaching the very top rewarded you with a panoramic view of Honolulu.

Tips: Wear workout clothes and closed toed shoes that are appropriate for hiking (saw a lot of flip flops and flats). Take water because you’ll be thirsty after all the stairs you climb. If you can park across the street, do so! Parking next to the trail costs $5 and they don’t refund you if you don’t find parking. Lastly, be prepared to be VERY close to people because some of the trail gets narrow and there are people coming and going.

Lanikai Pillbox Trail

The second hike we completed while in Oahu was the “pillbox” trail (not the pink pillbox). The hike was short and steep…VERY STEEP! The path was not difficult to trek, but definitely tougher than Diamond Head trail. As we made our way up we found ourselves trying to avoid stepping on loose rocks and making sure to use the ropes in steeper areas. There were a few areas where you could stop, take a breather, and snap some pictures. Both pillboxes were easy to climb on top of, but were crowded with people taking endless pictures. I chose not to climb on top of the first one due to all the people on there and my fear of heights. Once we reached the second pillbox I convinced myself to climb on up. The view was AMAZING!! Snapped a few pics and quickly climbed back down to head back to our car. The trail continued a little more but we chose to end it there since we had reached both pillboxes. Hiking back down was as hard as climbing up. At one point I slipped on loose rocks, landed in between two tree roots, and ended up with ankle/knee pain and a few bruises/scrapes. Nonetheless, I completed the hike…pain and all.

Tips: Again, make sure you wear shoes that are closed toe and appropriate to hike in. I saw many people in flip flops who kept slipping and tripping. WATER, WATER, WATER! Parking is hard to find because the beginning of the hike is in a private street that allows no parking. We parked about a block away (the earlier you go the easier it is to find parking). Lastly, wear sunblock and be very careful where you step (lesson learned). & if you find that you have some time to spare, hit up Lanikai Beach which is down the street.

Leave a comment below if you’ve done these two hikes and your thoughts on them. Also, what other hikes have you done in Oahu?

Aloha, Beaches!

aloha

In about three weeks Matthew, my mom, and I will be taking a family trip to Oahu, Hawaii. Not only will this be my first time in Hawaii, but it will also be the first time I see my mom in a year and a half! Yay me!

Being the over-thinker that I am I have been planning this trip for months now >.< lol

Therefore, I will be sharing some of my trip essentials with you guys. Enjoy!

out of office!

1. Rainbow Sandals

I am obsessed with how comfortable Rainbow sandals are (after you break them in of course) && must have a new pair as soon as my old ones are done. For this family trip, I got a pair of Rainbows for myself and I got Matthew his very first pair EVERRRR…& he loves them! 🙂

2. Little America – Mid Volume Backpack

My Herschel Supply Co. backpack has to be my favorite to travel with! I don’t do the whole purse thing, instead I opt for a more practical and roomy option, a backpack! This backpack passes as your personal item on planes (score!), is sturdy, fashion forward (comes in 7 colors)…and did I already mention how much room it has?!

3. Fifteen Belt Bag

So fanny packs are a new thing for me. When I worked at the Boys & Girls Clubs of GG we had to wear a fanny pack to hold first aid items and I HATED it! Few years pass, I get over my fanny pack hate, and realize how practical these are. I don’t know about you but I love to go hiking when I go on vacations. There’s just so much nature to explore! With hiking comes walking, climbing, etc. Therefore sometimes a backpack just isn’t the best choice. Cue, the fanny pack!! This awesome Herschel Supply Co. (notice a brand obsession lol) fanny pack is big enough to hold a phone, snacks (vital), and a few other items. Plus it comes in 6 different colors!

4. Erika Classic 54mm Sunglasses

Ray-Ban sunglasses…need I say more? These are a classic! I love Ray-Ban and this pair in particular is my favorite. The color scheme and lightweight frame, simple yet chic design that you can wear to the beach or with your Sunday best! Add to that the reasonable pricing and you have a winner 🙂

5. Janelle Green Multi Print Flatform Espadrilles

Espadrilles are such a beach staple! These palm tree print are so fun, cute, and comfortable. They basically go with everything: dress, shorts, pants, you name it! ($29)

6. Vince Camuto Paper Fedora

I love a good fedora anytime of the year but beach vacations mean straw fedoras and this Vince Camuto one is just right. My favorite thing about this fedora is that it is not too high so it wont make your head look longer than it is. Plus it is only $19.99!!

7. Pink Haley Alisha Pompom Straw Tote

How fun is this pompom tote?! Perfect for a beach day and ON SALE!

8. ASOS Mix and Match Crinkle Crop Bikini

If you don’t know already, my favorite color is pink! So when I saw this bikini I was thrilled! Hot pink is a color that goes with all skin tones. Add to it that the bottom is high waist and you got yourself a WINNER! Plus this material is so fun and unique.

9. ASOS TALL Plunge Ruched Front Swimsuit

Being 5’7, or taller, means you know the struggle to find a one-piece (or romper for that matter) that fits right. ASOS is great because they carry tall options in a lot of their items. This one piece is such a pretty yellow and covers up what some may consider “problem areas.” The material is very thick, so it keeps everything together and covered up!

10. Akasa Crochet Maxi Beach Caftan

Having a cover up is always a good idea. Specially if you’re going to try and grab a bite before or after sunbathing. This particular cover up is long enough to be appropriate for a sit down restaurant and flowy/thin enough to allow you to dry up fast.

PS. Stay tuned for more Hawaii trip blog posts and follow along on Instagram @jays_fields ! If you have any Oahu faves please comment or message me 🙂

Valentine’s Day Gift Guide

Roses are red, violets are blue, I need a Valentines gift but I don’t have a clue…

Oh yes, love is in the air (for some). In just a few days we will be surrounded with hugs, kisses, & Valentines wishes. Christmas and birthdays are already hard enough to choose a gift for! So what do you get the people that you love on this special day? 

I went ahead and put together a few things that I thought would make a fun gift based on peoples hobbies, likes, and needs. It ranges from baking to fitness and of course since my favorite color is pink I only added pink items in the “for her” section, BUT these items are also available in other colors. I also kept in mind after Christmas budgets so all items were kept under $50. After all, you don’t need to break the bank to show the one you love that you love them. Enjoy! ❤

FOR HER

  1. Everlast Pro Style Elite Gloves, Pink
  2. File Folders, 12ct, Pink/Gold – Threshhold 
  3. Kimberly Schlapman “Love and Daisies” 4-piece Patterned Silicone Kitchen Tool Set
  4. Metal Rose – 11 Piece Brush Set With Cosmetic Bag
  5. The Birthday Collection | Makeup Bag
  6. RDX Women Weight Lifting Gloves, Pink
  7. AmazonBasics 1/2-Inch Extra Thick Exercise Mat with Carrying Strap

FOR HIM

  1. Plano® Tactical Ammo Box
  2. Armor All 6 Piece Holiday Gift Box
  3. Nike Brasilia Small Duffel
  4. UA F5 Men’s Football Glove
  5. Xbox Digital Gift Card (Email Delivery)
  6. Breast Cancer Research Foundation® logo tee

FOR ANYONE

  1. Homemade Love Coupon Book
  2. Mani/Pedi
  3. Couples Massage
  4. A-Fit Bakeshop Desserts
  5. Picnic at the Beach (or other outdoor/indoor location)

Remember that no matter what you get or make for your loved one, what is important is that you do it with LOVE!

2018 Goals

Every year most of us sit and think of what our New Year Resolution/s will be. This year, I want to drop that title and just build a list of goals I have for 2018. I didn’t have to sit and think long and hard about what goals I had, they all just naturally came to mind. When it comes to goal setting I like to categorize my goals and make sure I give myself I time frame for that goal to be completed. So before I keep rambling on, here are my 2018 goals! (Notice my goals are addressed to myself because that is who these goals are aimed for, myself.)

PERSONAL

  1. Health Improvement: By the end of 2018 I will be 20-30 lbs. lighter and more physically toned. I will do this so that I can improve my health. This goal will help give me more energy, less knee pain, and a higher self-esteem.
  2. Better my eating habits: Every month I will cut out an unhealthy food and add a healthy food in its place. I will cook at home more often and will grocery shop with my health, not my cravings, in mind. This in turn will help me live longer, have a better immune system, and help my husband eat less junk.
  3. Pamper myself: I will make sure that each month I schedule one or more appointments for things that make me happy and help me relax. This can be anything from mani/pedi, hair apt, massage, spa day, or even just coffee/dinner dates with new friends.
  4. GO HOME: I will make sure to fly home at least twice this year. While I was in Guam I did not have the opportunity to fly home because it was a long and overpriced flight. Now that I am in WA I am closer to home and flights are very affordable. Plus I have not seen my family, friends, or Vinny (family dog) in over a year.

HOME

  1. Remodel master bedroom: By July you will have replaced the carpet in your bedroom with wooden floors. The room will be painted with decorations up on the walls. You will decorate to your liking and buy black out curtains for all windows (my neighbors leave their lights on all night).
  2. Remodel master bath: By July you will have replaced the tub, vanity/sink, and floors in your bathroom. The bathroom walls will be painted and you will add floating shelves to open up the room more.
  3. New Fence: By the end of Spring your backyard fence will be replaced. This will allow for your three fur babes to run around this summer without escaping into the neighbors yard.
  4. New washer/dryer: By April you will have a new washer and dryer. This will not only make laundry be faster, but it will also make your laundry room look nicer.
  5. Furnish guest bedroom/office: By February you will have the bed in the guest bedroom set up. You will have bought a mattress and bedding for the bed. The walls will be painted and decorations will be up.

FINANCIAL

  1. Pay off debt: By July my credit card will be paid off. I will only use my credit card for emergencies (& no shopping isn’t an emergency…sad face).
  2. Build up my savings account: By the end of the year I will have enough money saved to support myself for more than five months. I will aim to save half my monthly pay if possible.
  3. Save for two trips: I will save money for a trip in the Spring and a trip in the Fall. Some ideas of destinations are…Iceland, Hawaii, New Orleans, or Costa Rica.

I made these goals while keeping in mind that some goals cannot be achieved in the time frame I gave myself and it is okay.

Now I want to hear from you. What are some of your 2018 goals?

Photo Credit: Pinterest. 

My Year in Review

                     Photo Credit: Pinterest

So here we are, just a few days away from 2018! This year seriously feels like it flew. I know most people will say that about every year but, honestly, it feels like a blur.

2017 was a year of many changes for me. I started off the year as a newlywed, less than one month in. Not only that but I also rang in 2017 by lonesome self…and Meeko! My husband had to work and believe people when they say, “how you start the year is how it’ll go for you.”

Ever since the year started I spent a lot of time alone, adjusting to my new life in Guam. Marriage was definitely difficult! ***To everyone who makes it seem like such a breeze on social media and in public, props to you, you’re either VERY HAPPY or deserve an Oscar!*** The first half of my year was spent mostly in my home. Literally…IN MY HOME! I’m surprised I didn’t go crazy. I had quit my job of more than five years to move to Guam and also sold my recently paid off car. So needless to say, I was an unemployed and carless housewife! Why didn’t I go outside or walk places you may ask? Let’s just say there is nothing walking distance around, weather isn’t the best for walking, and there are plenty of stray dogs. During my self-inflicted house arrest, I watched a lot of Netflix, and decided I needed another dog to keep me company. That is where Olive came in to our lives. At just one or two weeks old we bought Olive off a man who was desperate to get rid of her. I hand raised this little puppy until she opened her eyes, ears, and was able to walk and eat on her own. Another thing I accomplished in Guam was learning how to cook! & with the cooking came the eating. Unfortunately, due to my very inactive life in Guam, I gained 30 lbs…yes 30! I had worked so hard to get myself in shape and reach my fitness goals for it all to just go down the drain in a few months.

Fast forward into July and we were up and moving across country to Washington. We bought our first home together and I bought a new car (Yay, Freedom!). Once we settled into our home we started volunteering at a local animal shelter, and if anyone knows me they’d know that was a bad idea! Three days into volunteering, we came home with Jack. About a month or two after arriving I was fortunate enough to have found a job in a field related to my Bachelors Degree. I chopped off my hair, I lifted my lashes, and I got ACRYLICS for the first time in years. Lastly, I decided to start blogging! I love to write and I love social media so this definitely felt right for me.

There have been so many new things that have happened this year that it amazes me how so much can happen in what seems to be such little time! Regardless of it all I feel so blessed and grateful to have good health, a loving family, new and old friends, and a job I love. I am definitely ready for 2018 and everything it has to offer!

                       Photo Credit: Janet Quiroga

Stay tuned for my New Year resolutions on my next post! 🙂